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International migration is commonly analysed through formal categories such as labour migration, student mobility, family reunification and humanitarian protection; less attention has been paid to migration that develops through intimate relationships, particularly where a partner from a relatively wealthier destination state becomes the practical pathway through which a woman from a lower-income country acquires international mobility. In such circumstances, the intimate relationship may function not only as a private emotional bond but also as informal migration infrastructure. This paper examines the vulnerabilities that may arise when intimate relationships facilitate migration between the Global South and the Global North, and it develops the concept of intimate migration dependency, defined here as a condition in which a migrant's ability to obtain, maintain or benefit from international mobility becomes materially or practically contingent upon an intimate partner. The paper argues that this dependency is multidimensional and may encompass migration status, economic resources, language, information, institutional knowledge and jurisdiction; these dependencies may remain largely invisible while the relationship is stable but can become consequential when the relationship deteriorates, particularly after children are born. The analysis is situated within scholarship on marriage migration, cross-border intimate mobilities, transnational families, migrant precarity, social reproduction and migrant women's labour-market incorporation. It draws on comparative immigration and family-law materials, including Kenyan legislation, Australian child-support mechanisms, the 1980 Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction, and United Kingdom and German family-migration and domestic-abuse provisions, together with contemporary judicial decisions arising from transnational families. A 2026 decision of the High Court of England and Wales concerning parentage arising from the British Army Training Unit Kenya (BATUK) provides a particularly important illustration of how an intimate relationship formed during temporary military deployment can produce legal consequences years later. The paper further analyses comparative decisions from England and Wales, Australia and Germany. These cases demonstrate that custody, relocation, domestic violence, immigration status and transnational abandonment can become intertwined, but also that courts do not simply treat migrant mothers as automatically vulnerable or fathers as automatically abusive; rather, outcomes depend upon evidence, habitual residence, the child's welfare, parental rights and the precise institutional framework of each jurisdiction. The paper identifies several recurring contradictions: mobility may increase geographical opportunity while reducing personal autonomy; employment may produce participation without economic independence; legal rights may exist without practical accessibility; and the physical presence of a foreign embassy may coexist with institutional distance from the state. It concludes by proposing a migration-resilience framework centred on partner due diligence, independent financial capacity, language preparation, employment and qualification assessment, immigration literacy, child and family-law awareness, and independent exit planning.

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Citation: Wambui Mumbi (2026) After the Visa: Intimate Migration, Dependency and the Unequal Consequences of Transnational Family Formation. Epistora J. Soc. Sci. & Glob. Stud. 1(1), 1-14. Article EJSSGS-2026-103